Jan
5
Anna_Blue asked:
I know, I know, it would totally mess up the eroticism, the intimacy, the spontaneity of the act. However, let’s say the man tells the woman, “You’re really hot, but I don’t want kids. I never want kids.” And let’s say the woman replies, “That’s fine, that’s fine. I’m on the pill, so it’s OK. Just DO me, baby!” He believes her and he “does” her. Well, let’s say she lied and isn’t on the pill and she, of course, get’s knocked up and decides to have and keep the baby.
I know, I know, it would totally mess up the eroticism, the intimacy, the spontaneity of the act. However, let’s say the man tells the woman, “You’re really hot, but I don’t want kids. I never want kids.” And let’s say the woman replies, “That’s fine, that’s fine. I’m on the pill, so it’s OK. Just DO me, baby!” He believes her and he “does” her. Well, let’s say she lied and isn’t on the pill and she, of course, get’s knocked up and decides to have and keep the baby.
Should she have the (moral, not legal) right to expect child support from him knowing his position on children? I know most states would consider it his legal obligation to pay child support, but if she knowingly had sex with him knowing his feelings shouldn’t he be exempt from paying child support?
Should he be able to sue HER for fraud?
Shouldn’t people in this position draw up and sign a contract before doing the “deed?” I know, if I were a guy and I didn’t want kids I would.
Your thoughts?
Anna
Leon